so i'm fairly new to mones and i need some major help guys
so far I bought the special trial versions from love potion offered during xmas holidays.
i have:
Cougar unscented (is this stone cougar?)
Blatant Invitation
Gotcha
Scene 1
the first time I tried both blatant invitation and cougar together when hanging out with friends.
we went to watch a movie first then went to a bar. 2 guys and 2 girls(including me).
I swear i got ALOT of Deer in the headlights but i wasn't sure if it was cuz of Blatant Invitation or Cougar. these were all young asian guys in their 20s. (Im asian, it was an asian bar lol)
people were friendly around me, gave me quite some attention. one guy was all over me touchy feely.
i made the mistake of wearing 2 new mones together so i really didnt know which one was doing the job.
Scene 2
so a week later, i decided to wear cougar alone and see how it works.
i invited over a guy friend and a girl friend, we were just chatting in my house, then another guy came (my guy friend's brother, i never met him before).
we were all sitting and chatting, I had my Cougar on..HOWEVER, i noticed people weren't talking to me directly. they were all super chatty and were fighting over each other for a chance to talk..but it wasn't directed towards me!
extra info:
not to sound shallow but i might as well be brutally honest so i can get some real help here:
I have 2 girl friends. both are super outgoing types. one is quite hot, the other is not at all.
back then when i hung out with my hot girl friend, i would always think maybe people think shes hotter than me and an attention grabber thats why i feel a bit invisible sometimes.
however, this time, we were hanging out with my..um..not so hot friend and i felt exactly the same. i hate that invisible feeling in the crowd. (this sounds terribly shallow but oh wells)
she left early so it was just me and 2 guys. shortly after, another guy left so it was just me and my guy friend.
i noticed something about me, when its one on one situations, the guy usually opens up to me ALOT.
my guy friend seemed like he couldnt wait for others to leave so he can talk to me one on one.
he even invited me to have dinner with him on weekend and was telling me loads of stuff...however, in the group setting he wasnt willing to talk to other people about his issues.(normal i guess).
Scene 3:
this time i wore Essence of Woman stinky cops alone to a condo party.
nothing happened. the host was super chatty and kept talkin and talkin but that was just his personality. nothing unsual.
so heres what i need help with:
cougar didn't work for me in terms of being in a group setting, i didn't feel the popular vibe at all. i definitely didnt feel like the centre of attention. i felt that everyone was just competing for attention that day and talking over each other.
i really wanted it to work, as a newb i might not noticed some hits but i really felt invisible again even with only 3 other people.
im not sure what to try next. i get loads of attention and feel like people are all over me when its one-on-one situations.
but throw me in the group i feel invisible. HATE IT. I dont know why
i need a good mone that will give me the attention because i have quite a few functions coming up all in group settings.
i haven't had the chance to try gotcha as i dont have a target i want now.
so far I bought the special trial versions from love potion offered during xmas holidays.
i have:
Cougar unscented (is this stone cougar?)
Blatant Invitation
Gotcha
Scene 1
the first time I tried both blatant invitation and cougar together when hanging out with friends.
we went to watch a movie first then went to a bar. 2 guys and 2 girls(including me).
I swear i got ALOT of Deer in the headlights but i wasn't sure if it was cuz of Blatant Invitation or Cougar. these were all young asian guys in their 20s. (Im asian, it was an asian bar lol)
people were friendly around me, gave me quite some attention. one guy was all over me touchy feely.
i made the mistake of wearing 2 new mones together so i really didnt know which one was doing the job.
Scene 2
so a week later, i decided to wear cougar alone and see how it works.
i invited over a guy friend and a girl friend, we were just chatting in my house, then another guy came (my guy friend's brother, i never met him before).
we were all sitting and chatting, I had my Cougar on..HOWEVER, i noticed people weren't talking to me directly. they were all super chatty and were fighting over each other for a chance to talk..but it wasn't directed towards me!
extra info:
not to sound shallow but i might as well be brutally honest so i can get some real help here:
I have 2 girl friends. both are super outgoing types. one is quite hot, the other is not at all.
back then when i hung out with my hot girl friend, i would always think maybe people think shes hotter than me and an attention grabber thats why i feel a bit invisible sometimes.
however, this time, we were hanging out with my..um..not so hot friend and i felt exactly the same. i hate that invisible feeling in the crowd. (this sounds terribly shallow but oh wells)
she left early so it was just me and 2 guys. shortly after, another guy left so it was just me and my guy friend.
i noticed something about me, when its one on one situations, the guy usually opens up to me ALOT.
my guy friend seemed like he couldnt wait for others to leave so he can talk to me one on one.
he even invited me to have dinner with him on weekend and was telling me loads of stuff...however, in the group setting he wasnt willing to talk to other people about his issues.(normal i guess).
Scene 3:
this time i wore Essence of Woman stinky cops alone to a condo party.
nothing happened. the host was super chatty and kept talkin and talkin but that was just his personality. nothing unsual.
so heres what i need help with:
cougar didn't work for me in terms of being in a group setting, i didn't feel the popular vibe at all. i definitely didnt feel like the centre of attention. i felt that everyone was just competing for attention that day and talking over each other.
i really wanted it to work, as a newb i might not noticed some hits but i really felt invisible again even with only 3 other people.
im not sure what to try next. i get loads of attention and feel like people are all over me when its one-on-one situations.
but throw me in the group i feel invisible. HATE IT. I dont know why
i need a good mone that will give me the attention because i have quite a few functions coming up all in group settings.
i haven't had the chance to try gotcha as i dont have a target i want now.