I'm looking to start a thread that Lists the Terms that Sounded Cliche' before but may now sound like verbal indications of the subconcious mind making choices that the conscious mind does not readily understand, and in turn the conscious mind blurts out these sayings that we all have heard, either personally or in others stories.
These sub-conscious (non-conscious) choices are where pheromones apply. If you don't notice the smell, you are not conscious of it, and if it has an effect on you, it must be at the sub-conscious or biological level (which can overlap at times).
Sometimes there are multiple levels of a relationship.
People relate/attract/repel on multiple levels all at the same time. Things you have in common, things that are different:
Race, Age, Gender, Religeon Ethnic, Veteran status, Sexual Orientation (the things government says companies must ignore to receive Federal Government contract dollars),
as well as others as Music, Movies, Height, Weight, Hair, Eyes, Looks, Money, Money, Money, Car, House, Baggage, Voice, Job, Athleticism, Friends, Intellect, Education, Personality, Sense of Humon, Determination, Dreams, Hobbies, Abilities, Recreational Pursuits...et cetera ad nauseum
Pheromones, Histocompatibility and Haplotypes are real levels that we can relate/attract/repel on in relationships. I added Histocompatibility and Haplotypes because they are part of the thread that my quote below is from.
and such that sound like they are the conscious mind trying to make an excuse and explain in rational reasoning of the conscious mind something that the unconscious mind is controlling. Sometimes looking at both sides shows how the sub-conscious is in control of what's going on and the conscious mind is just making excuses to explain what is going on while not understanding why these choices and actions are happening.
Also post what you think are the sub-conscious and conscious sides that are unseen and motivating the phrases.
Phrases, cliches' and terms
"It's not you, it's me." What this phrase means is, I found a better smelling person,
"We just grew apart." What this phrase means is, I found a better smelling person,
"We should see other people." ]What this phrase means is, I found a better smelling person, and I can't smell it because it is unconscious, but it just registers with me a primal level, so can you get your stuff out of my house/apartment.
"I think of you as a good friend." ]What this phrase means is, I found a better smelling person,
"We're just Friends" What this phrase means is, "Your pheromones make me want to bear your inferior children"
"I know he's not good for me, but I can't leave him" What this phrase means is, "Your pheromones make me want to mate with you uncontrollably in order to bear your children regardless of you being unemployed and broke with child support to 3 other women"
"You've changed" What this phrase means is, "My internal hormone levels have changed and the effect of your unchanged pheromone levels make me being around you temporarily or permanently unbearable/less fun/divorce/nuclear war/PMS"
"I was weak"What this phrase means is, "I found a way better smelling person and they used me for a one time thing then threw me out"
These sub-conscious (non-conscious) choices are where pheromones apply. If you don't notice the smell, you are not conscious of it, and if it has an effect on you, it must be at the sub-conscious or biological level (which can overlap at times).
Sometimes there are multiple levels of a relationship.
People relate/attract/repel on multiple levels all at the same time. Things you have in common, things that are different:
Race, Age, Gender, Religeon Ethnic, Veteran status, Sexual Orientation (the things government says companies must ignore to receive Federal Government contract dollars),
as well as others as Music, Movies, Height, Weight, Hair, Eyes, Looks, Money, Money, Money, Car, House, Baggage, Voice, Job, Athleticism, Friends, Intellect, Education, Personality, Sense of Humon, Determination, Dreams, Hobbies, Abilities, Recreational Pursuits...et cetera ad nauseum
Pheromones, Histocompatibility and Haplotypes are real levels that we can relate/attract/repel on in relationships. I added Histocompatibility and Haplotypes because they are part of the thread that my quote below is from.
(12-13-2012 5:47 PM)dexter Wrote: What you don't realize is that "IS" the reason, that there is sub-conscious/non-conscious drive to "MATE/MAKE BABIES/START FAMILY" and that the conscious mind can rationalize and find reasons to like and dislike people for companionship/money/looks, but there is always the other urge going on simultaneously.Please post phrases, cliches', terms
Think of it like people who go on diets. The conscious/rational mind thinks "I should eat less, exercise more, and lose weight. The sub-conscious mind says "CHEESEBURGER". I loved seeing the show where they had all the past contestants from the TV Series "Biggest Loser" and most all had gained all the weight back.
So, which is stronger? Rational thought or Primal Urge?
"CHEESEBURGER" wins.
But with mones and Haplotypes, you should equate this with that "Spark", "Chemistry", "That Feeling". Sometimes you just like somebody and you're not sure why. Some of that has something to do with these chemical signals. Do you ever just get "that feeling"? Some of it can be attributed to this.
So good looks/money/commonality all have roles in relationships, but don't think that there isn't the unseen but smelled aspect that taints your thoughts for better or worse in almost all cases. Where your girl smells another guy and all of a sudden you are single again, and she can't explain it either.
It is best explained by the phrases where the conscious mind tries to explain the actions that are a result of the sub-conscious mind being in control:
"It's not you, it's me."
"We just grew apart."
"We should see other people."
"I think of you as a good friend."
et cetera...
What these phrases mean is, I found a better smelling person, and I can't smell it because it is unconscious, but it just registers with me a primal level, so can you get your stuff out of my house/apartment.
and such that sound like they are the conscious mind trying to make an excuse and explain in rational reasoning of the conscious mind something that the unconscious mind is controlling. Sometimes looking at both sides shows how the sub-conscious is in control of what's going on and the conscious mind is just making excuses to explain what is going on while not understanding why these choices and actions are happening.
Also post what you think are the sub-conscious and conscious sides that are unseen and motivating the phrases.
Phrases, cliches' and terms
"It's not you, it's me." What this phrase means is, I found a better smelling person,
"We just grew apart." What this phrase means is, I found a better smelling person,
"We should see other people." ]What this phrase means is, I found a better smelling person, and I can't smell it because it is unconscious, but it just registers with me a primal level, so can you get your stuff out of my house/apartment.
"I think of you as a good friend." ]What this phrase means is, I found a better smelling person,
"We're just Friends" What this phrase means is, "Your pheromones make me want to bear your inferior children"
"I know he's not good for me, but I can't leave him" What this phrase means is, "Your pheromones make me want to mate with you uncontrollably in order to bear your children regardless of you being unemployed and broke with child support to 3 other women"
"You've changed" What this phrase means is, "My internal hormone levels have changed and the effect of your unchanged pheromone levels make me being around you temporarily or permanently unbearable/less fun/divorce/nuclear war/PMS"
"I was weak"What this phrase means is, "I found a way better smelling person and they used me for a one time thing then threw me out"