Suggestion for mone usage at family gathering?

Hi guys?
Enjoying winter, or summer in those of you southern hemisphere?
I have come to Korea just two days ago, and I heard yesterday that there's going to be a big family gathering on the X-mas.

There will be people from diverse age group, ranging from 5~6 yrs old my second cousin to nearly 90 yrs old grandma (87 years I think)
To be more specific I can give you numbers of people in different group setting.

5~6 yrs old second cousin (boy)
1 Teenager (probaly 18 yrs old)
Two people in early 20s (including me, so only 1 excluding me)
Three people in 30s (early to mid 30s)
6 people in 50~60s (Mid 50s to early 60s)
and one mid to late 80s woman

Here's my arsenal:

- Wolf
- Flirt XS
- Cohesion XS
- Aqua Vitae (sample size)
- Evolve XS (sample size)

Since I am not trying to attract a girl there, (also inappropriate as all of them are my relatives) I was thinking of using only wolf, or flirt, or I was thinking of combining them both.
Perhaps I should be using Wolf only, as I didn't have a chance to try it alone, but I am a little concerned due to Asian culture's valuing humbleness, and thinking arrogance is bad. (Alpha may seem arrogant in Asian culture, in my opinion.)

So what do you guys think about this? What would you recommend me to use? What would you use if you were I?

Thank you in advance!