I've been considering trying pheromones for a couple of years now, but I tend to be indecisive, and the various options have been so confusing up to this point that I haven't purchased anything yet. I have wanted to try them for both my husband and myself, but really don't know what to look for. I'm so glad I came across this board--I've already learned a lot and have a much better idea of what to expect!
But I still am not sure what brands/combinations I should be looking for, so I would love some suggestions for both my husband and myself.
A little background:
My husband is very much an "alpha" male already--and while I like that most of the time, I'm looking for something that might encourage him to be a little sweeter, and more romantic with me sometimes (like on our "date nights"). I don't know whether to look for a "self-effect" for him (???), or to use something on myself for this (Est?). Or both?
I'm a touch on the tomboyish side, but in the past few years, I have been working on presenting myself as more feminine, and he seems to appreciate that (and I like the results!). I'd like to continue in that vein and get something that will reflect a feminine vibe, but still be attractive. Sometimes I naturally seem to get, from him and other men, a sort of "distant" chivalry, if you know what I mean--I'd like to avoid that. Would Cops help here, or would that be too much? I don't much care about getting results or hits from other men, though it wouldn't bother me, either; I'm just more concerned with my husband's response, if that makes any difference at all in the choice of mones to use (like if/how the mones work with each other in his/her combination for a couple).
As a separate purchase, I'd also like something to help with my social interactions, particularly with other women. I grew up surrounded by boys, and have had only a few close female friends in my lifetime. I tend to make male friends pretty easily, but I'd like some women friends, too.
I tend to be shy and reserved, but I've been working on approaching people, and I am gaining confidence there. People say that I'm friendly and "sweet," but the connections I do make with women don't seem to go anywhere (no real chance to create a friendship), and rarely does anyone approach me. I'm not sure if it's something I'm doing or not doing or what, but if anyone might suggest something that would help with this (pheromone or a behavior change or self-help book or whatever), please feel free to point it out.
Thanks in advance!
--Amy
But I still am not sure what brands/combinations I should be looking for, so I would love some suggestions for both my husband and myself.
A little background:
My husband is very much an "alpha" male already--and while I like that most of the time, I'm looking for something that might encourage him to be a little sweeter, and more romantic with me sometimes (like on our "date nights"). I don't know whether to look for a "self-effect" for him (???), or to use something on myself for this (Est?). Or both?
I'm a touch on the tomboyish side, but in the past few years, I have been working on presenting myself as more feminine, and he seems to appreciate that (and I like the results!). I'd like to continue in that vein and get something that will reflect a feminine vibe, but still be attractive. Sometimes I naturally seem to get, from him and other men, a sort of "distant" chivalry, if you know what I mean--I'd like to avoid that. Would Cops help here, or would that be too much? I don't much care about getting results or hits from other men, though it wouldn't bother me, either; I'm just more concerned with my husband's response, if that makes any difference at all in the choice of mones to use (like if/how the mones work with each other in his/her combination for a couple).
As a separate purchase, I'd also like something to help with my social interactions, particularly with other women. I grew up surrounded by boys, and have had only a few close female friends in my lifetime. I tend to make male friends pretty easily, but I'd like some women friends, too.
I tend to be shy and reserved, but I've been working on approaching people, and I am gaining confidence there. People say that I'm friendly and "sweet," but the connections I do make with women don't seem to go anywhere (no real chance to create a friendship), and rarely does anyone approach me. I'm not sure if it's something I'm doing or not doing or what, but if anyone might suggest something that would help with this (pheromone or a behavior change or self-help book or whatever), please feel free to point it out.
Thanks in advance!
--Amy