Help! The straight men avoids me when I wear this. Either they avoid me or they act like total gentlemen but no hits. The gay men and many females seem to love Alfa Donna on me. The gay men and the females are more talkative & friendly. Many of them like to sit next to me, whereas the straight men would stand up just so I could sit down. But they're quiet...
How I use Alfa Donna? Well I shake the bottle a bit in every use. I only spray it once on my left wrist and rub the sprayed left wrist against my right wrist. Then I rub my wrists on my neck. (Tell me, is this the wrong way?)
First time reaction: For a shy gal like me, few mins after wearing it, I noticed I felt more confident. I was not afraid to maintain an eye contact (which is weird because I grew up never looking at people's eyes during conversation). Then I feel kinda cocky..I dunno. I would suddenly have this mentality of "I'm pretty and better than you, beych!". I'm serious about this! ..Then at the end of the day, when I come back home ,I would suddenly feel sad & lonely...
I also tried using Alfa Donna for my job interview a few days ago (for a corporate job position..company is listed in Forbes Top 50). The interviewer looked like a real snooty (HE is the director), but he was respectful & attentive to me throughout the brief interview. However, he seemed as though he wanted to end the interview asap.
How I was during the job interview while wearing Alfa Donna: I was a chatterbox (not quite typical of myself). I was definitely keeping an eye contact. Deep within, I was nervous & terrified of the director, but I was able to mask it by talking, smiling, & maintaining an eye contact.
Well, today I got a callback from the job agency whether I got the job or not. Well I did not get the job. The director told the agent that the reason is I failed to point out my own weaknesses as an artist. The agency said that the director may have perceived me as way too confident when I responded that "I had no weaknesses because it's my passion and I have been doing the job for many years."
Anyway, Hi! I'm a newbie. Lemme introduce myself: I'm a 32 yr old female from NYC. Grew up being a social reject. I'm shy and usually nervous in reality and sick of being like this so I tried using a pheromone to see how things would be....
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