Hi! I am brand new to the idea of using exogenous pheromones. I've always been very aware of my own and others' pheromones, and am very susceptible to a man with, I guess, a signature cocktail. Ha! Love puns. I also am naturally flirtatious and according to many "exude sexuality." I call it a good hip-to-waist ratio. Anyhow! Well I purchased a few love potion products because of the situation I'm in. I'm in a "relationship" with a guy who, although he is very attracted to me, is extremely noncommittal and freaks out when I want to spend too much time with him (it's only been a month). I have described him before as having castle-like defenses. He does NOT open up. And he is also quite argumentative. He is super affectionate in person but still so non-committal. I don't want to pin him down and make him marry me or anything but I want him to trust me enough to let me in and I want him to want to be around me more, and be okay with those feelings. It makes sense to me that if he feels that affection enough, it will grow in him and become the norm for him, right? I feel like this is a last option to try before I give up and make the excruciating choice to move on to someone who will appreciate me. You'd think he uses pheromones--when I'm around him everything else is just fuzzy details and he is... glorious ![Heat]( "Heat")
He just naturally makes my signature cocktail!! lol!
A little about me... I'm 26, not very dominant or argumentative. I'm flirtatious, like I previously mentioned, witty, do pretty well in social situations (if these 'mones work for me I may try a blend in the future for work settings...) and consider myself pretty attractive. I already get "hits" on my own. Lots of stares from groups of guys, lots of eye contact, strange men speaking to me at the grocery store... I'm not super emotional/mushy but with a SO I am very affectionate. Yes, guys, read: THE DREADED... clingy. I hate that word! But this is not the vessel for that!
I purchased one full sized Gotcha! unscented oil bottle and a handful of other trial sizes (PM, Essence of Woman , sexology and Aja, a cop variant, I guess?) I was thinking that I would wear the gotcha for a while first, since it's not our sex life that is lacking. So my questions are: does that sound like a good choice for this situation? How exactly do I wear the gotcha unscented oil--do I wear like the posts I've seen that talk about cops where you put a few drops on your torso and allow to dry? What's a good starting point? I don't want to overdo it and have him get suspicious or realize something's going on. Can that even happen? He's a bright guy.
Anyways, I appreciate the opportunity to vent, all my friends are over him and keep telling me to just move on but I can't bear it yet. So thanks to anyone for just listening. I also appreciate any help! Thanks!!
He just naturally makes my signature cocktail!! lol! A little about me... I'm 26, not very dominant or argumentative. I'm flirtatious, like I previously mentioned, witty, do pretty well in social situations (if these 'mones work for me I may try a blend in the future for work settings...) and consider myself pretty attractive. I already get "hits" on my own. Lots of stares from groups of guys, lots of eye contact, strange men speaking to me at the grocery store... I'm not super emotional/mushy but with a SO I am very affectionate. Yes, guys, read: THE DREADED... clingy. I hate that word! But this is not the vessel for that!
I purchased one full sized Gotcha! unscented oil bottle and a handful of other trial sizes (PM, Essence of Woman , sexology and Aja, a cop variant, I guess?) I was thinking that I would wear the gotcha for a while first, since it's not our sex life that is lacking. So my questions are: does that sound like a good choice for this situation? How exactly do I wear the gotcha unscented oil--do I wear like the posts I've seen that talk about cops where you put a few drops on your torso and allow to dry? What's a good starting point? I don't want to overdo it and have him get suspicious or realize something's going on. Can that even happen? He's a bright guy.
Anyways, I appreciate the opportunity to vent, all my friends are over him and keep telling me to just move on but I can't bear it yet. So thanks to anyone for just listening. I also appreciate any help! Thanks!!