Hi, I have a question about this. first I would please like to say no judgement on this matter. The situation is more nuanced than you might think.
there is a man I recently rediscovered my attraction for. we used to be friends and even had some brief romantic (non sexual) contact years ago. but we both started dating other people. Recently we reconnected. he got out of a bad relationship so he is in a (basically his own words) low maintenance long distance relationship with some girl he met on holiday a few months back and almost never sees.
we were watching a movie at my place recently and I realized how nice it would be to snuggle up, so I just went for it. he reciprocated and we've had a couple movie snuggle sessions since, but nothing sexual.
I really like this but the LDR thing is really hanging over us and stopping us from even fully enjoying just cuddling. last night I decided to speed things up by getting out my Achar, but it didn't affect him whatsoever..the only other stuff I have is glace (not appropriate for this situation) and some stuff from Love Potion. I haven't used Pheromones in a while.
was the achar potentially a bad choice, with its light cops? To make clear again the physical "scent" or "mark" of his partner isn't an issue as he only sees her once every several months. I may make another Love Potion order soon so if anyone has any tips, thanks. most of my collection is actually less sexual since that's what I'm going for but I might need a little extra OOMPH to push him in the right direction.
again, please no judging this situation. his LDR is not my responsibility and I am not going to outright ask that he terminate it or pressure him in any way.
there is a man I recently rediscovered my attraction for. we used to be friends and even had some brief romantic (non sexual) contact years ago. but we both started dating other people. Recently we reconnected. he got out of a bad relationship so he is in a (basically his own words) low maintenance long distance relationship with some girl he met on holiday a few months back and almost never sees.
we were watching a movie at my place recently and I realized how nice it would be to snuggle up, so I just went for it. he reciprocated and we've had a couple movie snuggle sessions since, but nothing sexual.
I really like this but the LDR thing is really hanging over us and stopping us from even fully enjoying just cuddling. last night I decided to speed things up by getting out my Achar, but it didn't affect him whatsoever..the only other stuff I have is glace (not appropriate for this situation) and some stuff from Love Potion. I haven't used Pheromones in a while.
was the achar potentially a bad choice, with its light cops? To make clear again the physical "scent" or "mark" of his partner isn't an issue as he only sees her once every several months. I may make another Love Potion order soon so if anyone has any tips, thanks. most of my collection is actually less sexual since that's what I'm going for but I might need a little extra OOMPH to push him in the right direction.
again, please no judging this situation. his LDR is not my responsibility and I am not going to outright ask that he terminate it or pressure him in any way.