Hi. I am as the post shows completely new to all of this. I felt that I could use a little bit of a chemical edge tho and found myself on this site ![Wink]( "Wink")
I am slender and 5'6", I am kind of quiet, considered sweet, and innocent seeming at least to most. I would also say that I am considered attractive and quite affectionate.
The man I am in love with, when he is in the mood, or wanting to please me is INCREDIBLE! I love it, unfortunately our past sexual relationships I believe have left different marks on us. In one relationship he was in, he says that one of his exes denied him sex for over 6 months straight at one time.
In a past relationship I was in, I was accused of being a slut, then when he sexually tried to treat me like a whore, said I would suck at one, "duh". I can be very flirtatious, but am not a slut.
This combined with a case of epididymitis, our sex life became nearly extinct. Out of bed, he is playful, his infection is being treated with medications, so I am hoping to be having sex regularly again. lol
I want to drive him just a bit nuts sexually speaking, and am lucky that I also share an office with him and have a fantasy, involving my desk.![Flirt]( "Flirt")
I want to undo the damage and be able to feel free for both of us to physically enjoy the other. What would you use/try if you were me?
I am slender and 5'6", I am kind of quiet, considered sweet, and innocent seeming at least to most. I would also say that I am considered attractive and quite affectionate.
The man I am in love with, when he is in the mood, or wanting to please me is INCREDIBLE! I love it, unfortunately our past sexual relationships I believe have left different marks on us. In one relationship he was in, he says that one of his exes denied him sex for over 6 months straight at one time.
In a past relationship I was in, I was accused of being a slut, then when he sexually tried to treat me like a whore, said I would suck at one, "duh". I can be very flirtatious, but am not a slut.
This combined with a case of epididymitis, our sex life became nearly extinct. Out of bed, he is playful, his infection is being treated with medications, so I am hoping to be having sex regularly again. lol
I want to drive him just a bit nuts sexually speaking, and am lucky that I also share an office with him and have a fantasy, involving my desk.
I want to undo the damage and be able to feel free for both of us to physically enjoy the other. What would you use/try if you were me?