Help with XiSt

I have been rocking XiSt for better part of the last month with at least triweekly exposure to two different targets in an academic setting. I generally am pretty good at picking up IOIs, and just haven't noticed hardly any. I won't see one of the targets again so she's lost (was never desired, more just for testing XiSt so it's cool), and next week I will see the other target, who is of much greater interest (it is early in life to think like this and am not too seriously but truly see as wife material, but really would like anything with her at this point) on two more occasions, and unless we at least exchange numbers, she will be gone as well. I have had great success with women in the past so don't suggest I can't just spray and stand in the corner and wait, as that's not what is happening. She is college aged, a year older than me.

I think I am struggling with how to act in congruency with XiSt (eg be super playful flirty, serious and sweet, very confident/alpha, etc.). I know Steve's mones don't typically require such, but this seems like the only think I can think of..

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, including if I should try something else next week
(some are samples, but would have access to AV,DP,XiSt,Cohesion,SOB,NA,Vibe,Ascend,b​liss,xs100,evolve)


Thanks!