BlissXS-Help! Reviews have me confused!

A little help form the wearers of BlissXS!

IDGF or, well, bliss?

I just pulled the trigger on Bliss, based mainly on the reviews of some of the ladies journals, but now that I'm wading through the rest of them here and I needed to ask some more questions because of the reviews from the fellas that I've been reading...

Is this intended as a social or are you wearing this to curb personal anxiety? I thought it was intended as an upbeat and happy/carefree social but then I'm reading reviews where people are writing that they could care less (IDGF) about what's going on around them and a lot of "made me mellow" which is weird to me only because I associate social with mingling, not sitting back and watching things happen. Just reaching for clarity here. Since I understood it to be a social....and a good one...I don't want to sit around stoned/spacy Or is that only at high doses? Is this the non-substance using person's answer to getting high? Can you elaborate on what IDGF means to you as the wearer...and maybe it is all over the gamut because I get that everyone reacts differently to mones.

One last thing....a good deal of the reviews on this are from the fellas. If there aren't any girls to respond, can you - gentlemen - tell me how the women in your lives have responded to it?

OH! and one last, one last thing, lol, (sorry I fibbed). How many sprays are you using because 1 sounds crazy potent!

Thanks!