mix for calm yet sexual

Hello

I'm new to the forum and relatively new to pheromones and need some advice regarding some specific requirements...

So essentially the bf and I have been going through some rough times and suffice it to say that emotional barriers are up and the sexual spark has suffered. He is abroad at the moment and I am looking for a mix assist me a bit when he comes back.... So what I am looking for is something that is sexual and seductive but not aggressively overconfident but rather comforting and calming.

Any help would be really appreciated ... Thanks